1. Put all your cards on the table
If you don’t already know your spouse’s financial status, or you haven’t shared your own, it’s well past time to have the money talk.
You need to know your respective salaries, savings and debt. Avoid hiding anything. Trust is the basis of marriage.
Even if you’re aware of your spouse’s debts — including student loans, credit card bills, car payments and more — stop and think about the impact of that debt on your future plans.
Now that you’re married, your spouse’s creditworthiness plays a major role in your collective ability to borrow. If one spouse’s credit is good but the other’s is less-than-stellar, joint mortgage approval may prove difficult, if not impossible.
Lenders fixate on the lowest credit score in a married couple, the credit bureau Experian reports, instead of using the higher score or an average. Even if a loan is approved, expect to pay higher interest rates.
You may need to look at ways to improve the poor credit score of one spouse before you start looking for loans. Start by visiting annualcreditreport.com to get free copies of your credit reports, then check them over for accuracy. If everything looks right, start tackling the tougher strategies — as a team.
Find a financial adviser in minutes
Are you confident in your retirement savings? Get advice on your investment portfolio from a certified professional through WiserAdvisor. It only takes 5 minutes to connect with an adviser who puts you first.Get Started
2. Get specific about your financial goals
Newly married couples might assume they share the same financial goals. Without an in-depth discussion, you don’t know that for certain — and even small differences can cause big disagreements.
For example, you both agree you want to buy a home. But what’s the time frame? Is a single-family home a must, or will a townhouse or condo fit the bill initially? Do you stay in your current area or relocate somewhere more affordable?
Discuss both short-term and long-term financial goals. Perhaps one partner’s assumptions were incorrect. Maybe there are deal breakers you never talked about.
No matter. Marriage is the art of compromise. Only by engaging in honest discussions about your goals will you come to a satisfactory decision.
3. Double your emergency fund
You never know what life will throw at you, but you’re in it together. Now that there’s twice the chance of a job loss, sudden illness or other disaster affecting your balance sheet, you need to make sure you’re using both your incomes to prepare.
That’s why reinforcing (or establishing) an emergency fund is one of the most critical money moves. As a general rule, put away enough money to pay for three to six months worth of living expenses.
The Consumer Financial Protection Bureau recommends setting up a dedicated fund with your bank or credit union. Emergency funds belong in the safest of investment vehicles, such as high-interest savings accounts. Stocks, mutual funds and ETFs are fine for long-term investing, but they aren’t stable enough for this purpose.
Whether you choose to maintain separate funds or combine them is up to you. Some advisers tell couples to merge their finances completely. Others prefer a “yours, mine and ours” approach. There is no right answer for every couple.
Sign up for Credit Sesame and see everything your credit score can do for you, find the best interest rates, and save more money at every step of the way. You can even find and apply for credits cards based on your credit profile and build credit with your debit purchases.Get Started—100% Free
4. Lock down life insurance
When you’re single, life insurance is seldom a priority. Once you’re wed, it rises to the top of the to-do list.
Sufficient coverage will make sure that anyone relying on your income won’t struggle to pay the bills if you die unexpectedly.
Buying a home or having a child — goals for many newlyweds — are common catalysts for purchasing a policy. That said, locking in life insurance when recently married is another one of those wise money moves. Rates are more affordable for young people without serious health issues.
How much coverage you’ll need depends on several factors, including each spouse’s current and projected income. If there’s a primary breadwinner, that person requires more coverage. However, a lower-earning or nonworking spouse still needs coverage. Should the worst happen, that life insurance can pay for expenses such as child care.
5. Consider filing your taxes jointly
Most of the time, it’s advantageous for married couples to file their taxes jointly rather than separately.
Joint filing offers numerous benefits, such as a larger standard deduction and the ability to qualify for a range of tax credits and deductions.
There is a caveat: If a spouse owes back taxes or child support or has defaulted on student loans, “married filing separately” may be tempting. That’s because the IRS may offset any joint tax refund to satisfy your partner’s debts.
Either way, be sure to update the Social Security Administration with your new last name, if it’s changed, and tell the IRS if you move. That will ensure all of the paperwork matches up and you don’t delay any tax refund coming your way.
Stop Overspending, Start Saving
Imagine shopping with confidence and getting the best deals. Capital One Shopping makes it possible.
This free add-on revolutionizes your experience, finding codes and unlocking rewards. Take charge and earn while you spend. Try Capital One Shopping now