She’s done everything right: raised four kids, largely as a single mother, has no debt and a fully funded emergency savings account. Her retirement savings are about $1 million split between a “Roth and 401(k),” and her paid-off home in Illinois is worth around $350,000.
By almost any measure, this woman has won. So why does she want to give it all up and rent?
“I wouldn’t mind just writing a check every month and just be done,” the caller told The Ramsey Show. “I’ve had so much responsibility in my whole life raising my four kids, keeping up with my house.”
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Dave Ramsey empathized: “For 20 years you’ve been a she-bear out here fighting, scratching, clawing — and you’ve cleaned the gutters. You’ve done whatever it took, and you’re just tired,” he acknowledged. He admitted that renting would allow her the freedom to not “screw with stuff, because the landlord does.”
But his financial verdict was clear: renting for the next 30 years would be a mistake.
“Think about what rents have done in the last 30 years,” Ramsey told her. “Gone up. And think about what they’re going to do during the 30 years that we’re talking. So if you rent instead of owning a paid-for property going into retirement, you’re destabilizing your life because every year your housing cost is going to go up.”
The caller had floated the idea of buying something smaller outright, like a townhouse, but wasn’t sure if renting for three decades would really make more sense financially.
The case for Ramsey’s position
This caller’s situation makes Ramsey’s argument clear. Illinois has some of the highest property taxes in the country, and she mentioned hers were roughly $1,000 a month.
According to the Lincoln Institute of Land Policy, Illinois has the second-highest effective property tax rate on median-value residential homes among all 50 states, at 2.07% — more than double the U.S. average of 0.98% — with a median real estate tax bill of $5,189, compared to the national median of $2,969.
As high as that is, it’s fixed to the assessed value of the home and doesn’t compound the way rents do — particularly in a market like Illinois without caps on how much landlords can raise rents.
So, on a paid-off property, her monthly housing cost is essentially that tax bill, plus maintenance and insurance. If she rents, that number could rise indefinitely.
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But the math isn’t always that simple
Recent Zillow research cited by Forbes complicates the picture. “The question we’re really asking is: when does buying leave a household better off than renting, given today’s actual prices and rents?” Orphe Divounguy, senior economist at Zillow, posed. “It’s math — and the math changes dramatically depending on where you live.”
For many markets, ownership wins over 30 years, but only if the renter doesn’t invest the cash they free up. “A renter who puts that cash to work in the market ends up with real wealth too,” Divounguy noted.
That calculus is somewhat different for this caller. She already has $1 million in investments. She doesn’t need to sell her home to generate a nest egg — it’s already there. What she would gain by selling and renting is liquidity and freedom from maintenance. What she would lose is exactly what Ramsey identifies: a stable, fixed housing cost floor.
According to Bank of America’s 2026 Homebuyer Insights Report, 94% of respondents feel homeownership gives them stability. That’s up from 83% in 2025. For someone entering retirement with no income from employment, that factor has real financial value.
So who’s right?
Ramsey’s instinct to downsize but not rent holds up well here. Selling a $350,000 paid-off home and buying a smaller property outright would preserve the fixed-cost floor his caller has now, eliminate the maintenance burden she’s tired of and keep her retirement accounts untouched.
But renting isn’t inherently irrational for someone with $1 million in savings.
In this case, if she invests the proceeds well and her rent stays manageable, she could come out ahead. But “could” is the operative word here. At 30 years, in a market with rising rents and no equity stake, the odds favor ownership. While the caller has earned the right to simplicity, she doesn’t have to pay for it indefinitely.
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