Raising a family has always come with additional costs, but in 2026, it’s become a whole lot more expensive.
Now, a six-figure salary is practically the unofficial minimum when it comes to raising a family “comfortably.” In fact, a recent Smart Asset study found a single adult needs at least $80,000 a year to support themselves in the U.S., while a family of four needs to bring in at least $200,000.
But some states are feeling the pressure more than others. Here are the top two most and least affordable states this year.
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Where prices are increasing
A 2026 study from SmartAsset, which used the latest data from the MIT Living Wage Calculator, shows just how much Americans are struggling in today’s economy — particularly in Massachusetts and Hawaii.
“Massachusetts is the most expensive state for a family of four, with an income requirement of $329,555,” the study says. “Hawaii is the most expensive state for single adults, who need $129,002.”
But Montana is currently a contender to join the “most expensive” list as it saw the sharpest spike since 2025, increasing 8.6% for a single adult.
Living “comfortably” means making enough money for necessities — along with things like long-term savings, education funds, entertainment, hobbies and vacations.
By comparison, it costs the least to live a comfortable life in Mississippi and West Virginia. The study puts the minimum income requirement for a family of four in Mississippi at $187,533, while a single adult in West Virginia needs $81,245.
But are Americans going as far as to adjust their plans for a family to save a dollar — or to be able to retire?
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Are Americans having fewer kids?
Overall, Americans are reproducing less these days, and one of the reasons is related to the high costs of raising a family.
To maintain a stable population, each woman in America would need to have 2.1 kids on average. In 2025, the U.S. reached an all-time low, with the number of births per 1,000 women dropping to 53.1 from 53.8 in 2024.
A 2024 Pew Research Center poll found that 51% of young adults between the ages of 18 to 34 say they’d like to have kids one day, while three in 10 aren’t sure and another 18% say they don’t want children.
Meanwhile, 23% of Millennials and those in Gen Z who don’t have children say they don’t plan on becoming parents, mainly because of financial reasons, according to a 2024 survey from MassMutual.
“A preference for financial freedom and the inability to afford children are equally cited by 43% of younger generations,” according to the study.
It seems not every young couple wants to find themselves in a position where the cost of living in their location could suddenly mean living less comfortably. And while relocation could offer some relief for those feeling pinched, it’s hardly enough to offset the long-term cost of raising a family in America.
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Vawn Himmelsbach is a veteran journalist who covers tech, business, finance and travel. Her work has been featured in publications such as The Globe and Mail, Toronto Star, National Post, CBC News, Yahoo Finance, MSN, CAA Magazine, Travelweek, Explore Magazine and Consumer Reports.
