Baby Boomers are often stereotyped as being wealthy, but that’s not universally true.
Boomers had average debt balances of $92,619 in 2025, according to Experian. And they’re entering retirement with significantly more debt than generations past. In fact, around 10% of Boomers born during the peak years of the Baby Boom had a negative net worth in their 50s, which was very uncommon for the prior Silent Generation.
This debt can have serious consequences for Boomers and their families. Let’s say, for example, that Hank and Mindy are in their 60s and want to sell their home, but a $60,000 tax lien on the property makes it difficult. They want their son Max and his wife Clara to pay the back taxes, and they’ve promised to pay them back from the proceeds of the sale.
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Clara is understandably nervous about this arrangement. And before Clara and Max act, they need to understand the risks of helping out his parents.
Paying off someone else’s tax lien may be a bad idea
While Max wants to help his parents, Clara is absolutely right to be concerned.
For one, the fact that Hank and Mindy have a tax lien on their property in the first place is a major red flag. Per the IRS, a lien is only put on your property if you fail to pay a debt.
In most cases, you have multiple options to avoid a lien on your home, including paying your tax bills on time, entering into an IRS payment plan, or participating in programs for seniors who can’t afford property taxes. The fact that Hank and Mindy let things get to this point strongly suggests their finances are far from stable.
The problem for Max and Clara is that they could pay off the debt, and Max’s parents could change their plans to sell and stay in the home without paying Max and Clara back the full amount. Or Hank and Mindy could pocket the home sale proceeds without providing full repayment.
Hank and Mindy could also have other debts on the house, all of which would have to be satisfied when the home is sold. “Just because the tax lien is paid off doesn’t mean there aren’t other liens, mortgages, or judgments against the property,” Nick Panize, the president of Westgate Capital Ventures, told Moneywise.
If Hank and Mindy owe more than the home is worth, even after the tax debt is resolved, they may not be able to pay back the $60,000 they borrowed.
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Are there other options beyond paying off the lien for them?
If Max and Clara choose not to give his parents $60,000, they can help them in other ways. One way to do that is to help them explore the possibility of pursuing tax relief. However, whether that’s possible or not depends on the kind of back taxes they owe.
“The IRS does negotiate its liens, through penalty relief or an offer in compromise,” Achim von Bodman, CFP and senior tax manager at Watter CPA, told Moneywise. However, if the back tax debt comes from property taxes, rather than a HOA or home equity loan lien, it is likely to be much harder to negotiate a payment plan or pay less than the full balance.
“Property taxes are generally harder to negotiate than other types of debt,” Panize said. “You may be able to work out a payment plan or get certain penalties waived, but don’t assume they’ll discount the actual taxes owed.”
Michael Oliver, a broker and owner of Oliver Realty, agreed. “Counties don’t take offers. Where negotiation does exist is with private lienholders. HOAs and judgment creditors sometimes settle for less”
The good news is, Hank and Mindy don’t necessarily have to pay off the debt in full before closing if they want to sell their home, as long as they have enough equity in the home to cover the extra $60,000.
So Hank and Mindy could sell their house if they want, even without help from Max and Clara, provided they’ll collect at least $60,000 above what they owe on the mortgage or other debts so the profits of the sale can pay off the balance.
Before they do, though, they may want to explore payment solutions to see which works best for them. They may also want to consider making a plan for how to avoid getting deeper into debt in their later years. If they’re open to advice, perhaps Max and Clara can help them with that process.
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Christy Bieber is a US based personal finance and legal writer who has 15 years of experience. She has written for many publications including Forbes, Kilplinger, CNN, WSJ, Credit Karma, Insurify and more.
