Figuring out what to do with your money when you’re gone can get a little complicated when there’s no obvious heir to leave it to.
Take Barb, a 76-year-old who has never married, never had children and now has close to $15 million sitting in her name.
The problem is that she doesn’t have anyone close enough in her life that she feels she can simply leave it all to.
Thanks for subscribing!
Retire on your terms — we'll show you how.
By signing up, you accept Moneywise Terms of Use, Subscription Agreement, and Privacy Policy.
She has options, though. Friends, former colleagues or distant relatives could all factor into her decision. She could also leave money to charities or other organizations she cares about. Or she could start moving some of the money while she’s still alive, when she can actually see what it does.
The tricky part is figuring out how to put all of that in place so there are fewer surprises later.
Mapping out your wishes
Without children or a spouse to leave the money to, Barb has some decisions to make about where she wants it to go.
If she wants to leave money to important people in her life, she’ll need to explicitly spell out those wishes in her estate plan. She might want to help a godchild buy a first home, set aside money for a friend’s grandchildren or provide a financial safety net for an aging sibling.
But there are tax questions, too. For someone who dies in 2026, the federal estate tax basic exclusion is $15 million, which puts Barb’s estate right around that line. Her actual tax situation would depend on the details of what she owns, any taxable gifts she has made and where she lives. Some states also have their own estate or inheritance taxes.
A plan made at 76 may look different a few years from now. A friend could move away or die, Barb’s finances could change or she could simply change her mind about where she wants the money to go. Regardless, she’ll want to revisit the plan when something significant changes and make sure someone she trusts knows where to find the will and other important documents.
Must Read
- Jeff Bezos backs a platform that lets anyone invest in rental homes for as little as $100 — 6 ways to build wealth like a landlord without actually being one
- The tax breaks in Trump's 'big beautiful bill' expire after 2028. Here are 4 moves to make before the window closes
Giving it away now is an option
If Barb knows she has more than enough to cover her own expenses, health care and whatever else the next couple decades might bring, she could start giving some of it away now.
After all, there can be something deeply satisfying about seeing where your money goes while you’re still here, whether that’s helping a charity or helping a close friend.
A donor-advised fund (DAF) is one possible option. She could put money into the fund and recommend that it be given to charities she chooses over time. She gives up control of the money once it goes into the fund, though, so it’s not something she can dip back into if she changes her mind or needs the cash.
This could be useful if she knows she wants to give to charity but hasn’t decided exactly where yet.
The IRA is a little different. As someone approaching 80, Barb is old enough to make qualified charitable distributions (QCDs) directly from an IRA. When the rules are met, the money goes straight to an eligible charity without being included in her taxable income, and the distribution can count toward her required minimum distribution (RMDs).
Rather than taking the money out herself and then making a donation, she may be able to send some of it directly to charity and get the tax treatment that comes with a QCD.
Before she starts giving away large amounts of money, she’ll need to make sure she’s still got enough for herself. Housing, health care, long-term care and everyday expenses can add up, and having $15 million today doesn’t mean she knows exactly what she’ll need 10 or 20 years from now.
She doesn’t have to give away a huge amount all at once. She could start with a smaller gift and see how it feels before deciding what to do with the rest.
A will is only part of the plan
Retirement accounts and life insurance policies usually have their own beneficiary forms. The person or organization named there can receive the money directly, outside of the will, so Barb would need to make sure those forms match the rest of her estate plan. An old beneficiary designation can create a problem even when the will itself is perfectly up to date.
Someone will also have to deal with the estate after she dies. If there isn’t a family member who makes sense for the job, she could ask a trusted friend or hire a professional executor. That person could be dealing with the IRS, selling property, paying outstanding bills and making sure the money ends up where it was supposed to go. With an estate worth millions, that may be too big a responsibility to put on a friend.
If she hires someone, Barb will want to understand what that person or firm will actually handle and how they’ll be paid. She can also name a backup in case her first choice can’t take on the job when the time comes.
She’ll also want to think about what happens if she needs help before she dies. Estate planning can include documents that name who should make financial and health care decisions if she can’t make them herself.
She can choose different people for different jobs. The person she trusts with her finances doesn’t have to be the person she wants making health care decisions.
For Barb, the biggest thing may be making those decisions while she’s still able to decide exactly what she wants.
You May Also Like
- Dave Ramsey warns nearly 50% of Americans are making 1 big Social Security mistake — here’s what it is and 3 simple steps to fix it ASAP
- A single line on your car insurance policy could be inflating your premium by up to 30% — here's what to change
Laura Grande is a freelance contributor with nearly 15 years of industry experience. Throughout her career she's written about and edited a range of topics, from personal finance and politics to health and pop culture.
