When best friends travel together, should they sit in the same fare class? Does the richer friend have any obligation to cover for the one sticking to a budget? These questions stirred a wave of online discussion on how to handle friendships when huge wealth gaps exist.
In a Sept. 28 interview with the Mental Wealth podcast, Savannah James, an entrepreneur and wife of NBA superstar LeBron James, and April McDaniel, her best friend and business associate, dived into how they approach things like personal finances, friendship and self-worth.
“We talk about this a lot because there’s two different lifestyles that exist. Like we’re not delusional to that and I think Savannah has accommodated where I’m at,” McDaniel said. “So like if we want to go away, I can’t just be like, ‘All right, we going away tomorrow, because I’m on a budget.’ We don’t move like that, even though people think we do.”
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According to Forbes, LeBron James’ net worth is at least $1.4 billion. Suffice it to say that plenty of people shared their thoughts on James’ and McDaniel’s approach to their wealth-gap friendship.
Savannah James weighs in — and so does the internet
McDaniel was also upfront about crafting a spending plan that she sticks to, even if it means sitting in a different section than James. “And I think…like even if we’re going on the same trip, I don’t feel the need to be in first because that’s not in my budget,” McDaniel said. “Like so, we always laugh about it.”
James said that her friends haven’t tried getting her to cover their expenses on a trip or vacation. For her, it’s simply a non-issue.
“My friends are very respectful of my situation. All of them,” James said on the podcast. “It’s no expectation of like, taking care of something or just having me be responsible for them. It has never ever been that.”
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First class or bust?
Social media users were eager to chime in with their own takes on how they’d handle a flight if they were sitting on a mountain of wealth themselves.
“No shade, but if I didn’t wanna buy my best friend a first class ticket I’ll buy the same ticket she’s buying,” one user wrote on X. “Either way we flying the same regardless never separately.”
A Reddit user said they couldn’t bear the thought of sitting in first class without their best friend alongside them. “I could NEVER sit in first class w/o my bestie if I could more than afford to get her a first class seat as well,” the Reddit user wrote. “If we’re childhood besties, and I have an abundance of wealth, I’m treating my friend to nice experiences!”
Another Reddit user believed James and McDaniel set healthy financial boundaries that were nobody’s concern but their own. “These are rich folks business. Her friend still flew business class. They aren’t bothered by it. They both made it to their destination,” the user said.
Personal finances can alter or even end friendships if a mutual understanding isn’t reached on routine things like taking vacations or splitting the bill at a restaurant. It gets trickier when someone is financially well-off and expectations set in about whether they should be paying for their friends.
A 2025 LendingTree survey found 41% of Americans said they’d experienced tensions with friends over money and 36% said they had friendships end over it.
“You can misunderstand what’s happening, and that’s how you get that rift with money and your friendships because we never set the ground rules in the beginning,” Mental Wealth co-host Jack Howard said.
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Joseph Zeballos-Roig is a policy and politics journalist based in Washington D.C with a focus on economics. He is experienced in connecting the significance of events in the capital to the lives of everyday Americans whether its taxes, tariffs, interest rates or federal programs.
