Hate your job and thinking about switching careers? Want to follow your passion? You’ve probably heard the adage “Do what you love and you’ll never work a day in your life.”
Well, maybe you shouldn’t.
That’s exactly the career advice actor Reese Witherspoon offered in a recent Instagram video about the advice she offered to a young woman she is mentoring. “Everybody has dreams. Doesn’t mean you’re going to be that thing,” she said (1).
Instead, the Legally Blonde and Big Little Lies actor suggested that you’re better off figuring out your “specific, unique talents” and pursue those instead. “Chase your talents, not your dreams.”
Her advice lines up with what other career and life coaches recommend. So, if you’re undecided on a career, or considering a career move, here’s what you might want to ponder.
Don’t chase your dreams
Young professionals and job seekers often feel pressure to identify their dream job. And nearly seven in 10 (69%) U.S. workers changed or were considering changing career fields over the previous year, according to FlexJobs’ 2025 State of the Workplace Report (2).
But if a dream job consumes all your time and energy, or doesn’t pay enough to cover the bills, then that dream can lead to frustration, burnout or underemployment.
Amina AlTai, a leadership coach who works with Fortune 100 executives, told CNBC’s Make It that some of her clients were “willing to forego having their needs met” to follow their passions. And that, she says, can lead to burnout.
Following your passion also requires a “level of privilege” that many people don’t have — such as a supportive spouse who’s paying all the bills, AlTai said (3).
Scott Galloway, NYU professor and author of The Algebra of Wealth, has a similar view. “If someone tells you to follow your passion, it means they’re already rich. And typically, they made their fortune in some unglamorous industry like iron ore smelting,” he wrote on Medium.
For example, Galloway, referring to a Nature study from 2019, points to the fact that only 2% of professional actors make a living from acting.
“Unlike passion, talent is observable and testable; it can be more readily converted into a high‑earning career, and it gets better the more you exploit it,” he wrote (4).
Also, being passionate about something doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll be good at it, no matter how much you may want to be.
Author John W. Mitchell also told Fast Company that “follow your passion” is bad career advice.
“Let’s say that I’m passionate about gymnastics,” he said. “Well, I’m 6-foot-3; doing gymnastics probably isn’t a good idea, even if I’m passionate about it” (5).
There’s another issue, too. Passions can serve as a break from work. But when they become work, they can start to feel like work, which can drain the joy from something you normally love doing.
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Chase your talents
Instead of trying to turn a passion into a career, you might instead benefit from asking yourself what you’re uniquely good at. Mitchell suggests that you follow your competence instead of your passion.
“Employees with a strong sense of purpose at work are 5.6 times as likely to be engaged in their jobs as those with a low sense of purpose,” according to a 2025 Gallup and Stand Together survey of U.S. working adults (6).
If you’re not sure what you’re uniquely good at, think about courses in school or tasks at your job that came naturally, without much stress. You could even consider a formal approach, such as an aptitude assessment like the Holland Code Test.
If you’re still unsure, you can learn about your competencies and aptitudes through trial and error — you don’t have to stick with the same career path for the rest of your life.
Also consider that many enterprises are making hiring decisions based on skills rather than degrees. Indeed, almost two-thirds (64.8%) of employers surveyed by the National Association of Colleges + Employers (NACE) said they use skills-based hiring practices for new entry-level hires, assessing the full range of a candidate’s experience (7).
Once you discover your competencies, you can start to hone your craft. “When you’re doing something that you’re competent at that is valued by somebody else, they’ll pay obscene amounts of money for excellence,” Mitchell claimed to Fast Company (5).
For example, AlTai told CNBC that she originally pursued a master’s degree in nutrition, but then realized it wasn’t her life’s work, and didn’t finish her degree. Now she’s a leadership coach, but with a focus on well-being, and her nutrition knowledge sometimes comes in handy (3).
Building a career around your proven strengths, competencies and aptitudes may provide more stability than a “dream” job. And that job could eventually fund your dreams or passions later, in retirement.
While Reese Witherspoon may be part of the 2% of actors who make a living from their craft — and a good living, at that — her career advice carries some weight.
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@reesewitherspoon on Instagram (1); FlexJobs (2); CNBC (3); Scott Galloway on Medium (4); Fast Company (5) Gallup (6); National Association of Colleges + Employers (7)
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Vawn Himmelsbach is a veteran journalist who has been covering tech, business, finance and travel for the past three decades. Her work has been featured in publications such as The Globe and Mail, Toronto Star, National Post, Metro News, Canadian Geographic, Zoomer, CAA Magazine, Travelweek, Explore Magazine, Flare and Consumer Reports, to name a few.
