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Baby boomers are ready to transfer personal treasures to their heirs. The problem is no one wants them

Baby boomers are in the process of transferring an unprecedented amount of wealth to their Gen X and millennial heirs.

According to research from Visa Business and Economic Insights, about $36 trillion in baby boomer wealth is expected to transfer over the next 20 years (after subtracting liabilities).

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But boomers are also passing down possessions they’ve accumulated over the course of a lifetime as part of the Great Stuff Transfer. It includes fine china, silverware and crystal-cut stemware from their wedding, a heavy wooden dining set with matching hutch that’s lasted decades, and a piano that hasn’t been played in years, likely decades.

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Then there are the collections, like teacups, porcelain figurines and decorative plates that don’t hold much monetary value anymore. And what about that collection of National Geographic magazines that span decades and take up an entire bookshelf?

Many boomers are finding that, as they downsize or start giving away their treasures, their kids and grandkids don’t want any of it.

Even if you paid good money for them, holding on to prized possessions that nobody wants can actually cost you. Here are a few ways to let go and move forward.

Why younger generations don’t want stuff

Baby boomers were shaped by their parents, the Silent Generation, who grew up during the Great Depression and Second World War. They were taught to be thrifty, to save and reuse. Then they came of age in the post-war era of economic prosperity.

“You saw a relatively unprecedented middle-class accumulation of stuff,” June Cotte, a professor of marketing at the University of Western Ontario’s Ivey Business School in Canada, told the Financial Post.

Some of it has sentimental value. Cotte’s parents, for example, owned bedroom furniture made by her grandfather. “It is an emotional thing to get rid of, and that’s probably why boomers hold on [to these items] for so long,” she said.

But there are practical considerations — whether offsprings actually want that stuff. Cotte said she doesn’t have room for the furniture, and neither do her siblings.

In part, that’s a space issue. Housing costs are out of reach for many younger households. Median new and existing home prices are over $400,000 — up 54% nationwide since 2020 and nearly five times median incomes, according to the latest State of the Nation’s Housing report.

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With a significant shortage of affordable housing, many younger Americans are choosing to rent instead of buy. If they do buy, they’re more likely to live in less square footage than their parents (empty-nest baby boomers own 28% of homes with three or more bedrooms).

That hardwood dining room set with matching hutch isn’t exactly going to fit in a 600-square-foot condo. Younger generations might also move more frequently for work, which makes it a pain to move, or they might just have more of a minimalist aesthetic.

Whatever the case, the Great Stuff Transfer could be a painful transition.

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The hidden costs of stuff

Some baby boomers, in the process of giving away their prized possessions to Gen X and millennial family members, might choose to rent a storage unit if their heirs don’t want it and if their newer homes are much smaller.

But the cost of a storage unit — not to mention the cost of haulage — can add up over time. About one in three Americans currently use storage, with an average rental rate of $119 per month.

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In the case of younger generations inheriting family valuables, there’s also an opportunity cost. Spending money on a storage unit to keep items your parents gave you prevents you from saving or even investing that money or using it to pay down high-interest debt.

You’re also spending money to hold onto what are most likely depreciating assets. There isn’t much demand for certain items anymore, like fine china. And using resale sites such as Facebook Marketplace can be time-consuming and burdensome.

For large amounts of stuff, an estate sale may be the way to go. But keep in mind that paying for estate liquidators — and even donation pickups — can eat away at the cash you made. The average estate sale grosses more than $18,000, according to EstateSales.net. But fees and commissions can run up to 50%.

As a last resort, you can drop off unwanted possessions at a landfill. But junk removal services cost money, and most municipalities charge dump fees, which average about $62 per ton.

If certain items do have monetary value, it helps to keep a record of it so no one accidentally donates it or throws it in the garbage. In many cases, though, the cost of keeping stuff — especially if it requires storage or maintenance — isn’t worth its cash value. Sometimes the most financially savvy decision is to let go. Perhaps donate to charity or thrift stores to find a new home for the possessions — especially as Gen Z turns to thrifting during a period of rising costs.

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Vawn Himmelsbach is a veteran journalist who covers tech, business, finance and travel. Her work has been featured in publications such as The Globe and Mail, Toronto Star, National Post, CBC News, Yahoo Finance, MSN, CAA Magazine, Travelweek, Explore Magazine and Consumer Reports.

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