Quentin Tarantino knows how to hold a grudge.
The Oscar-winning filmmaker has a $150 million net worth, according to Fortune. But he promised himself at age 12 he would never give a penny of his money to his mother after they got into an argument about his schoolwork.
“My mom always had a hard time about my scholastic non-abilities,” Tarantino told Brian Koppelman on a July 2021 episode of “The Moment with Brian Koppelman.” One day, he said, she was berating him for not paying attention in school.
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“In the middle of her little tirade, she said, ‘Oh, and by the way, this little “writing career”… that you’re doing, that s— is f—— over,’” Tarantino told Koppelman. “She said that to me, in that sarcastic way. I was in my head, and I go, ‘OK lady, when I become a successful writer, you will never see penny one from my success.’”
For the most part, Tarantino has stuck to that. Here’s where he’s strayed from his promise — and why his lack of support might not be as surprising as it originally seems.
Tarantino minimal support
When 12-year-old Tarantino made that pledge to himself, he had expensive gifts and luxuries in mind.
“There’ll be no house for you, there’s no vacation for you, no Elvis Cadillac for Mommy, you get nothing because you said that,” Tarantino told Koppelman in reference to his fight with his mom.
In that respect, he’s been totally true to his word: He hasn’t given his mother, a nurse named Connie Zastoupil, any of those things. But he has helped his mother out financially. In the podcast episode, he said that he helped her out of a “jam with the IRS” at one point.
Koppelman urged Tarantino during the episode to give up his view, but the director wouldn’t budge.
“Remember: There are consequences for your sarcastic tone about what’s meaningful,” Tarantino said.
Despite the relative lack of support, Zastoupil says she’s proud of her son.
“Regarding my son Quentin — I support him, I’m proud of him and love him and his growing new family,” she said in a statement to USA Today in August 2021. “It gave me great joy to dance at his wedding and receive his news upon the birth of my Grandson Leo.”
If Tarantino’s pledge bothers her, she’s not going to admit it to the press.
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Higher-income kids give less
The move might seem harsh, especially since Tarantino himself admits that his mother probably didn’t mean it how it came off to him.
“She just meant don’t do it in f—— class, you know, when you’re supposed to be doing something else,” Tarantino told Koppelman.
But plenty of financially well-off children don’t provide financial support to aging parents. According to Pew Research, lower-income adults with parents 65 or older are more likely to provide financial support to parents than those with higher incomes.
The research found 44% of adult children with an annual income of less than $50,000 said they provided financial support to their parents over the last year. In comparison, only 23% of those with an income of $50,000 or higher said they gave financial support to their parents.
Pew Research doesn’t say why that’s the case — it’s very possible that higher-income children aren’t put in a position where they need to provide financial support as much as lower-income children.
But the pattern doesn’t hold for the reverse scenario. Low-income parents of adult children are significantly less likely to provide primary financial support to their children than middle- and upper-income parents, according to Pew Research.
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Kit Pulliam is a DC-based financial journalist with over five years of experience writing, editing and fact-checking financial content.
